Collection: Your first toy: for him

Your first toy: a quick guide for him

Using a toy isn't «for guys who can't get laid»: it's time for yourself, new sensations and better stamina with a partner. No judgement, no shame.

1. Stroker: the one that never fails

• To try it out (under €20): stroker eggs stretch to fit any size and each has a different inner texture. The Tenga Uni is worn on the fingers, great as foreplay.
• To keep: silicone or TPE sleeves like the Kiiroo Feel have stronger ridges and last for years with a little care.
• Going big: the Arcwave Voy has 8 pressure levels: twist the ring and you choose how tight it feels. Water-resistant, so it works in the shower too.

2. Cock ring: more stamina and pleasure for both

• Non-vibrating: the Je Joue ring set has three rings, from gentle to snug; it keeps blood in for a firmer erection and a later (and stronger) orgasm.
• Vibrating: Satisfyer and B Swish rings vibrate against your partner's clitoris during penetration. The perfect «for both of us» gift.
• Golden rule: never more than 20-30 minutes in a row, and take it off if you feel cold, tingling or pain.

3. Get it right first time

• Always use lube, water-based: more sensation and a longer-lasting toy (silicone lube damages silicone).
• Cleaning: warm water and mild soap after every use; turn sleeves inside out and let them air-dry before storing.
• Total discretion: it arrives in a plain box, nothing gives away what's inside.