Your first toy: for her

Suction toys, bullets, small vibrators and Kegel balls: the easiest ones to start with, from €18 to €99.

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Your first toy: a quick guide for her

Pleasure needs no excuse: knowing your body is the best way to enjoy it, solo or with a partner. No judgement, no shame.

1. Suction toy: the favourite to start with

  • To try it out: the Satisfyer Sugar Rush combines pressure waves and vibration, with 12 programmes and a whisper mode. Waterproof, bath-friendly too.
  • The classic: the Womanizer Starlet 3 stimulates the clitoris with air, without direct contact. For many women it is the toy behind their first «easy» orgasm.
  • Going big: the LELO Sona Cruise uses sonic waves that reach the inner clitoris too, and its Cruise Control keeps the intensity steady even when you press harder.

2. Small vibrator: you are in control

  • Bullet (under €20): the Rocks-Off Bamboo fits in your palm, has 10 speeds and works in the shower.
  • Finger vibe: the Satisfyer Candy Cane slips onto your finger and rests on the vulva: perfect to find out where and how you like it. Works with a partner too.
  • Discreet for travel: the LELO Mia 3 looks like a lipstick and is almost silent.
  • Wand: the B Swish Bthrilled has a wide silicone head that vibrates over the whole area; it doubles as a back massager.

3. To play as a couple (or on your own)

  • Couples vibrator: the We-Vibe Sync Lite is worn during sex and stimulates you both at once; with the app you can change the rhythm even from a distance.
  • Remote egg: the Pretty Love Jenny has 12 vibration modes; the fun is handing the remote to your partner.
  • Kegel balls: LELO Luna Beads Noir or Je Joue Ami (3 progressive weights) strengthen the pelvic floor: more sensitivity and stronger orgasms.

4. Get it right first time

  • Start gently: lowest intensity first and build up; with suction toys, less is more.
  • Lube, water-based: more sensation, and it will not damage the silicone of your toy.
  • Cleaning: warm water and mild soap after every use; if the head comes off, wash it separately and let it air-dry.
  • Total discretion: it arrives in a plain box, nothing gives away what is inside.